怒吼 8 5 09

我一直认为最失败的父母就是用藤条鞭打孩子和对孩子怒吼的父母。
我虽然明确知道在生活上要怎样的去引导你，可是或许时间不够、耐性不够、精神不够、本事不够等原因（或借口？），我避不开一般父母的陋习，对你怒吼。
对孩子怒吼的父母是很可怕的，我仿佛看到镜中自己的丑样。
在教育孩子的路上，我跌跌撞撞，虽不至于焦头烂额，但的确有几分辛苦。
虽然如此，甜蜜的时候还是很多的，你的灵巧，你的话语，你的歌声，甚至你睡觉时安详的面容和姿势都让我有一种饱足的喜悦感。
身为人父的路上，我一路反省，也从来没有想过放弃（因为孩子，我爱你），我只希望我的父职角色越做越出色。
以下是“怒吼”你的那个早上干爹给我的电邮：－－

Hi Glenn,
How are you feeling now ? This morning I am so sorry that ZY made you so frustrated and I could sense that you felt like giving up especially since we are late etc. Please hang on ! We should discuss some alternatives . Maybe you ....
Lets talk again.
I am sorry it is my fault to put you into so much problems. Please have a good day ,relax, try to think of zy as a baby who does not know what he is doing and he is doing it not to hurt you.

Thanks
MT